1. Your perception of yourself is at this stage almost certainly a perception only of your external language usage and in the context either of others or of rhetoric constructed with perceived or imagined others in mind.

2. Once you have shattered that illusion and found the 'you' which can be perceived underneath the disparate, inconsistent, partial imagined versions of you brought together by your contact with others, there is nothing left to fear or be hindered by in the world.

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